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Part 3: Let's Talk About Death
10 Conversations That Protect Your Family
Simple Questions That Can Prevent Conflict Later
You don’t need to cover everything at once. These talks work best when they unfold naturally over time.
Choose one area to begin and let it grow from there.
Choose one area to begin and let it grow from there.
1. Medical Wishes and Care
- Who do you trust to make healthcare decisions if you cannot?
- What kinds of medical interventions or comfort measures would you want or not want?
- Where would you prefer to receive care: at home, in hospital, or in hospice?
2. Legal Documents and Decision-Makers
- Do you have an up-to-date Will and Powers of Attorney?
- Who have you named to act on your behalf, and do they understand your wishes?
- Where are your key documents and account details stored, and who has access?
3. Financial Overview
- What accounts, insurance, or debts should your loved ones know about?
- Are beneficiary designations and account titles consistent with your overall plan?
- If you could not manage finances yourself, who could help keep things running smoothly?
4. Dependants and Caregiving
- Who would care for children, dependants, or pets if you were unable to?
- What guidance or resources would help them manage routines and care?
- Are there family dynamics or blended-family situations others should understand in advance?
5. Property, Business, and Family Assets
- Which homes, cottages, heirlooms, or business interests carry special meaning?
- Have you discussed how these should be handled, shared, or transitioned?
- Are there stories, histories, or family intentions connected to them that should be preserved?
6. Digital Life and Modern Assets
- Who can access your passwords, subscriptions, and online accounts?
- Would you like certain digital assets such as photos, messages, or social profiles kept, closed, or shared?
- Are there online business systems, files, or records that someone needs to maintain or close?
7. Philanthropy and Community Commitments
- Are there charities, causes, or community projects that matter deeply to you?
- Are there gifts, pledges, or ongoing commitments you’d like to see honoured?
- Would you like your family to continue your involvement or support in any way?
8. End-of-Life Preferences
- Would you prefer burial, cremation, or another form of remembrance?
- Are there cultural, religious, or environmental wishes you’d like respected?
- Who should be informed or included in any service or memorial?
- Have you shared what kind of memorial or gathering you would want?
9. Family Communication and Understanding
- Have you shared the main parts of your plan with those affected?
- Are there decisions that could benefit from a conversation about why you made them?
- How can you make sure everyone knows where to find information when the time comes?
10. Review and Continuity
- How will you or your family keep plans up to date as life changes?
- Who will take responsibility for maintaining shared records or passwords?
- When is a good time to revisit these conversations together?
Make It a Family Habit
Imagine if every family had these conversations regularly, not as a crisis response but as an act of care.
Once a year, sit down together. Talk about what has changed, what still matters, and what you want others to know.
You do not need the perfect script or the perfect timing. You just need to start.
Talking about death is really about protecting life: the lives of the people you love, and relationships that carry on after you.
Once a year, sit down together. Talk about what has changed, what still matters, and what you want others to know.
You do not need the perfect script or the perfect timing. You just need to start.
Talking about death is really about protecting life: the lives of the people you love, and relationships that carry on after you.
Start the conversation. Protect the connection.
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